|Here are the five mindfulness exercises you can use to help you manage strong emotions and feel a little bit more at ease during a challenging time.|
| 1. Noticing the here-and-now|
Part of the reason mindfulness practice has such powerful effects on our well-being is due to the fact that focusing on the here-and-now can help you disrupt the constant stream of thoughts, worries, and fears that we tend to experience when going through a difficult time.
A racing, constantly active mind can affect the way we feel, leading to poor concentration, fatigue, and difficulties with sleep.
Practising coming back to the here-and-now involves noticing when you are going about your day on auto pilot, not being present or focused on what you’re doing, and then gently bringing your attention back and participating fully in the task at hand.
| 2. Tuning into your senses|
Sometimes, when we are stressed, focusing on what’s happening right in front of us can be a challenge in and of itself. Our minds are drawn to thinking about the future and all the bad things that are or could happen.
Using your five senses – sight, touch, smell, sound, and taste – can help you bring your mind back and focus, so you can ease those worries.
For example, you could describe what you are seeing around you, tune into different sounds or smells, or savour your food as you’re eating it. You can use this strategy at any point throughout your day to help you feel a little bit more at ease.
The more you practice, the easier staying calm will get!
| 3. Recognising the ebb-and-flow of emotions|
Being “mindful’ is all about allowing yourself to feel whatever comes up without judging it as ‘bad’ or automatically trying to suppress, escape or avoid it. Sometimes, the way we respond to our own emotions like sadness, fear, anger or disappointment, can determine whether these emotions take over or whether they pass by on their own.
All emotions are normal for us to experience and all pass with time. Our behaviours and what we do when we are feeling a certain way is what determines whether our emotions get stronger or ease away.
| 4. Breathing through tension|
Your breath is one of the most powerful tools you can use to manage how you feel.
Often, strong emotions bring up a lot of physical sensations, like tension, tingling, knots, or even pain. Learning how to notice when these sensations arise and using your breath to soothe and relax areas of tension can be a great way to ease how you feel.
When you’re feeling particularly under the pump, notice where you’re feeling tense – e.g., in your shoulders and neck – take a deep breath in and as you breathe out, focus your attention on this area and allow the muscles to relax.
You can pair this activity with movement or place your hands on this area and turn your attention to the sense of touch.
| 5. Being OK with not being OK|
Finally, being kind and gentle with yourself – not judging yourself for feeling a certain way, not trying to force yourself to feel better, and being OK with not being OK is all part of the mindfulness philosophy.
It is about allowing your experiences to unfold and doing your best to stay in the moment and take things one step at a time to get through a difficult spell in a healthy way.
This doesn’t mean being ‘inactive’ and avoiding dealing with the situation, it is all about looking after yourself and your mental health as you tackle and overcome the challenges you are facing.
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